Anything in life that perplexes you should be given to God. Perplexity is a state of mind entangled with confusion; Generally when one is confused, anger, and frustration will find their way into the mind of the individual also claiming state, not to mention its plan to use you to infiltrate others.
Confusion with its friends anger and frustration are deadly poisons like a rattle snake who only seek to kill.
By letting go of these toxins we add days and years to our lives sabotaging the schemes of the enemy within as well as cutting off the ability of the enemies plan to use us to infiltrate others.
Truly I say to you, Whatever you shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatever you shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.