I find being happy a choice. As my name is Kim representing my personality, but not my God given characteristics. Being happy is like being in love it’s hard to break away from true love as in unconditional love or agape love, a tad bit different from love that decides to come and go predicated on things that make it unhappy. I prefer to allow God to be in control of me in all ways therefore I have practiced being Being happy without pretense, without looking to someone or something because happiness begins with us all making a choice. It is not when I get enough money, or when my husband or wife changes, it is not when my kids straighten up or when when when. It is when I choose to stop giving my power to lower minded things , Taking my power back to live authentically as God designed me to be. Practice, practice, practice, being the person proclaiming transformation.