James 4:8 says, Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded (this is scripture). http://wp.me/P1I3KO-FfK
Friendships and relationships are the same. Have you ever noticed your friendships changing? As we change relationships change. Some may end, some are paused, and some may become stronger, but the fact that we notice the changes makes the difference. By noticing the difference in ourselves and lives awareness opens, which brings self knowledge and understanding of ourselves. Are the friendships and relationships were attracting God like or are they as James stated in need of washing and letting go? The coming and going of friends and relationships tell us much about ourselves, because the people we mingle with daily are mirroring images of ourselves. We tend to have like characteristics which is why were drawn into lessons together.
However, we come closer to Godly relationships as we let go of those things God has required of us. Jesus and His inner circle are a great relationship, for family, friends, marriages, and work environments to focus on today, after all He is the truth, the way, and the light that brings change! Amen!