Use these scriptures
Proverbs 25:28 A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.
Revelation 3:19 – As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.
Proverbs 23:13 – Withhold not correction from the child: for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
Titus 1:8 – But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate;
Proverbs 20:13 – Love not sleep, lest thou come to poverty; open thine eyes, [and] thou shalt be satisfied with bread.
Proverbs 6:23 – For the commandment [is] a lamp; and the law [is] light; and reproofs of instruction [are] the way of life:
Proverbs 29:17 – Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul.
Proverbs 22:15 – Foolishness [is] bound in the heart of a child; [but] the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
Proverbs 25:28 – He that [hath] no rule over his own spirit [is like] a city [that is] broken down, [and] without walls.
Hebrews 13:17 – Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that [is] unprofitable for you.